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Relationships, Chocolate and SEM!

February can be a month of dark and dreary skies but it doesn't mean classes have to be. If you haven't already, download and use the Valentine Resource to play with your students. Use valentine treats as game pieces for fun! February is also about relationships, not only with your loved ones but with your student's families and contacts, business or casual, outside of music. Trust is paramount! I recently had an agreement with a business contact who didn't tell me about the hidden cost of a product. An assumption was made that I would want it and was promised a phone call and I never heard from the person. Lack of integrity and not fulfilling a promise lost this business associate income and a long term customer. Follow through and honouring your word, go a long ways in the success of your business. Do you ever wonder when you are going to find the time to do all you need to do for your website? Read about a company called Odesk that can help you find more time for the things you love to do and take on those projects you are just having trouble getting around too. Have a Happy February! Enjoy chocolate (it makes you smarter),nurture relationships, build trust and keep in touch with those in your life and community. They will remember you because you have touched their lives. Musicallyours, Mrs. Lois MYC Certified Teacher Solo Time Music Games info@solotimemusicgames.com Teaching Tip - Oh Boy! Have you ever used the "Easy!" button from Staples in your classes? I've used mine with great success. Students get to press the "Easy" button when: They can write their rhythm story without any help from me (or their parent) or they need encouragment to get books put away and up to the piano a little quicker. It's a great incentive! Recently a family went to Disneyland and brought back an "Oh, Boy!" button for me to use. Now Mickey is putting the fun in class. Game of the Month Three's a Triad Three's a Triad has many cards with several different levels. All cards help young musicians determine the notes of a triad in root position. Bonus this game comes with cards cut for you! To Market To Market - Odesk Do you have a hard time trying to get everything done on your new website? Are you stuck on what Google analytic's just might have to offer you? What about posting links to get your web site to appear first in your community? Or getting SEO and SEM done and what in the world does that all mean? Odesk is a site where you can hire someone who can help your accomplish your web marketing for you and do it for a reasonable price. It is a unique way to hire someone and know that you are getting value for your money and you actually know how long they have worked on your site. Check out Odesk to hire someone to do all the above for a price most music teachers can afford.

Solo Time Music Games February is a sweet month! Post a picture of your students playing any Solo Time Music Game on Facebook and I will send you a FREE Articulation resource to play with your students. info@solotimegames.com

My Deck a Refuge

The snow came, school was canceled, the rain came, schools opened and then it was slush and sleet for three days. Welcome to the west coast of BC! But, if one looks they can find little joys in everything and with the drenching rain came the sparrows and the odd squirrel who came to sit on the covered balcony to get out of the miserable weather. It was wonderful to watch sometimes up to 50 birds sitting the deck trying to keep dry.

I trust your compositions are coming along well. Here are a few words that I wrote last year about composing, encouraging you in your efforts to cover everything in the lesson.

"Lesson time is precious and we often feel pressured to get through everything but during this season we have to choose which element of the lesson will have to wait until composing is over. Never regret giving a child the tools to compose. They will always be grateful to have learned how to compose and we can always catch up on other essential activities in class when composing is over."

I love bringing the joy of teaching music and it's concepts to young children in a fun and easy to understand way. Valentine's Day is coming, so I've posted a new and an "updated" Valentine teaching aid. Print, laminate and use Valentine candy for game chips! www.solotimegames.com/resources

Enjoy the rest of January and may this years compositions be filled with wonderful and interesting ideas and tunes!

My Mother's Jewelry and Wrinkles

I could never figure out why my mother had so much jewelry.

In a little girls eyes, my mother had tons of jewels and could never wear it all.
But, she was always buying new stuff. I could never understand it.
A person just needs a few basic earrings, pearls,
a couple of diamonds (fake or real), just the simple stuff or so I thought.

But as I aged, the more jewelry I seemed to acquire.
It baffled me as to why I had this unconscious need for more
earrings, bracelets and necklaces.
Was I becoming my mothers daughter?
Or was there some other sub-conscious reason as to why I was making these purchases?

One day I was trying to reason my way out of a new pair of earrings,
I looked in the mirror and I noticed a new wrinkle.
I immediately bought the earrings.
Sometime later, I was trying on bracelets and notice a new liver spot on my hand,
I paid $60.00 for the one I had on.
I was never a big fan of necklaces until I noticed the skin sagging on my neck and chest from too many years of sun tanning.

And then one day it hit me! I was buying jewelry to hide the fact that I was aging.
I was sub-consciously hoping all the pieces that were accumulating in my jewelry box was taking away the focus of my ever
increasing wrinkles,lines, spots and sagging skin!

Now I'm not saying that wrinkles were my mother's reasons for
purchasing jewelry (although she did have over 300 pairs of earrings
at last count) but there is a common theme between mother and daughter here.
When I look at her, I have the same lines on the upper lip, a spot in the same place on our hands and I really don't want
to mention any other lines and spots in honour of my mother as she would never want me to mention them
but could there be a world wide theme to the purchases of such jewelry? (Other than the fact that the men in our lives can't think of nothing else to buy for us.)

I guess each woman is entitled to her own reasons for acquiring jewelry. But as life shows no signs of making me any younger and if the acquisition of the odd pair of earrings is my way of dealing with this process,
I consciously say, with purpose and dignity, upward and
onward to Michael Hill, Ben Moss, Peoples, Fifth Avenue and fabulous independent jewelers everywhere,
Thanks.
(At last count I had around 40 pairs of earrings)

My Mother and Facebook

A Twitter posting today from Chris Brogan said to blog about your mother on Facebook. Really?
Oh okay.   My mother is Estella, her name means "star" and I've always loved her name.
She named me, Lois which means "battle maiden" and I've always hated her for it.
But that's a blog for another day.
My mother, well, she has Alzheimer's. I'm still grateful that she still knows me when I visit
and knows my voice when I phone her. She's weak, opinionated, fragile, falls and won't use a walker.
We should have suspected she had Alzheimer's a lot sooner when the mice invaded her condo
and no one else had mice. She had been buying food and forgetting she
had bought it and then the mice just made themselves at home with the hefty stash
in the cupboards and pantry.
I just thought she was getting old, we all get old you know.
Also when someone gets old, they don't want to clean any more, I don't want to clean any more!
So I thought the condition of her apartment was just that, getting old.
But when family isn't around a loved one for extended periods of time you
just don't see or recognize the gradual decline into the dungeons of senility.
Finally, my sister Laura, who is my mother's caregiver had her diagnosed and we
moved her into a series of homes for the elderly as she declined and was unable to
care for herself.
But my mother is on Facebook. She doesn't write on it or post anything funny.
Laura, created a Facebook page for her, so we her children, can know how she is doing.
                                                     So I guess this blog is about my sister, Laura,

who diligently and faithfully cares for my mother so that the rest of us don't have to worry about her.
Thanks Laura.

Snowflakes and Sunshine Greetings to you all!

I trust and hope that you had a wonderful December with recitals, party's and family times. As this busy season comes to an end, a new year comes with a fresh start to music lessons. Read below on how I make clapbacks fun in the new year and also how Twitter can help you with your marketing. Last year I posted a Composer Snowman to help my students walk through the process of their composition from start to finish. I've reposted it again this year for you to use. Feel free to make changes to suit your classes. iPhone in class? It's usually the parents I have to remind to turn their cell phones off. But as we were getting ready for Christmas recital I was trying to figure out how to encourage students to practice a little more without becoming the nagging piano teacher. So, I brought my iPhone into class and videoed the students performing their songs and then played it back for them. There was no need for me to remind them to practice that tricky measure or work on dynamics. I had said it all before, but with the video they could see and hear it for themselves. It was a great teaching tool and I plan to use it again in the future. My next goal is to get a class set of iPads. Can you imagine ensembles on them! That's what dreams are made of and our income is spent on! Have a wonderful and musical 2011! Christmas with Jakob Musicallyours, Mrs. Lois MYC Certified Teacher Solo Time Music Games info@solotimemusicgames.com Teaching Tip - Drumming Clapbacks Clapbacks can sometimes be left out of a busy class but they are essential for ear training, short term memory and introducing new rhythms in a new song. In the new year I bring out my drum and have everyone (including parents) stand around it. Everyone finds their hand position and using alternating hands, they copy the rhythm that I play on the drum. It's busy with so many hands drumming on the same drum but so much FUN! Check out the video. Game of the month - Monster Patterns Monster Patterns A great game to reinforce patterns! Also a great tool for helping your young musicians to use with their composing. Check it out! www.solotimemusicgames.com To Market To Market - Why Twitter? Twitter is being purported as the new marketing and social craze but how do you use it to market to your advantage? Truthfully, it hasn't brought me any new clients but what it has done, is brought my face and my business into the fore front in my community. It's about relationship. It's building connections within your community with groups and with people who I probably would not have any connection with in my community. So being on Twitter is expanding my exposure. How do you do it? Sign up on twitter first and then: 1) "Follow" people who live in your community. Do a search of ALL the people and business's who are in your area and follow them. Real estate agents are great to follow as they are always in touch with people new to the community or moving into a specific area. When someone follows you, thank them. 2) Also, go outside your community and "follow" people who are also in the same business as you and build relationship with them. It never hurts to know what others are doing and saying. 3) Relationship is built when you post comments. What is a comment? It's sharing your comings and goings but don't get annoying by posting tons of useless stuff. 4) Share musical tidbits and tips. This lets your community know who you are what what you do. Post a comment or "retweet" someones twitter comment a couple of times a day to let your community know you exist. Expand your exposure by meeting your twitter friends face to face by going to a Tweet-Up or Meet-Up in your community. 5) NEVER re-post someones brilliant comment as your own. Give credit where credit its due both on twitter and facebook. Twitter is NOT an overnight success. It's takes effort and diligence. Self control is also needed so that you are not spending valuable time reading through all the comments. People you follow will probably not be your future clients but they are the ones who will refer their friends and collegues to you when they think and talk about music with in their community.

A Musical Christmas Season

Solo time Music Games Christmas Letter
Wondering how to deal with students who don't celebrate Christmas?
Here is a suggestion

Wishing you a

Merry Musical Christmas Season

Candy Canes, Christmas Carols and warm woollen mittens! December arrived as it ususally does - with no less busyness than can be expected. Christmas songs have been practiced and are almost ready for the recital on Saturday. I know many of you are just experiencing your first bout with snow but here a green Christmas is the ususal so a little more effort is required needed to get into the mood of the season. This coming Saturday I will be hosting a Christmas recital at a local coffee house. It is always a great success because it makes the spirit of the Christmas season a little more real and helps everyone feel a little more like Christmas when there is no snow. Christmas solo's, duets, ensembles and carols make up this mini-recital. Since I am not requiring students to memorize their songs, we all feel less pressured. This event will be a time to play, perform and enjoy the season. Some students will even bring their red activity books for everyone to sign so they can fill up their "I'm a Star" pages. In the resource section of Solo Time Music Games I have posted some seasonal note review flashcards for you to use with your students. Print, laminate, cut out and have fun! In other news, my grandson, Jakob, is coming for Christmas! I am so excited! I've have purchased way more baby gear for him than I ever did for my own children. I just love being a grandma. Merry Christmas and many wonderful teaching days ahead in 2011. Warmly, Mrs. Lois MYC games made in BC info@solotimegames.com www.solotimemusicgames.com

Celebrate Christmas or not? A question asked of me lately was "What do I do with students who don't celebrate Christmas? This situation is one that I try to address when parents first register their child. I inform parents that I do hold a Christmas recital and party and during this season their child is welcome to practice a secular song. The choice to participate is left up to the parent's. It is a parents responsibility to instruct their child in their faith, traditions and how to say "no thank you's" to something that is not part of their beliefs. Families who don't celebrate Christmas generally do another activity with their child on the day of our Christmas party and recital. I never penalize a whole class for the sake of another's beliefs. This situation and any other of your concerns can be addressed and written into the policy statement that parents are required to read and sign at the beginning of the teaching year, to prevent misunderstandings as any seasonal or cultural events approaches.

Give Yourself a Rest!

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Take the struggle out of learning the correct placement of rests with your students.

These two games are a fun and easy way to teach rest placement.

Students are required to complete each measure with one rest.

Weak and Strong beats (easy)

Strike Out (hard)

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Take learning rest placement to a whole new level with Give it a Rest!

Students must find one or more rests to complete each measure.

These teaching aids take a little more time in class but are worth the value to

reinforce the strong and weak beat placement of one or more rests.

Give it a Rest! - Level 1, Level 2 and Level 3

Lots of fun and easy to use!

Give it a Rest teaching aids are un-laminated

and may be laminated at an extra cost of $10.00 per set.

Please order directly from Solo Time Games info@solotimegames.com
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Polygamy hurts the innocent.

Polygamy not only needs to be abolished and criminalized but spousal and child support for all the innocent victims of this life style should be mandatory.

How is it possible that a polygamist's can claim God gives them the right to have as many wives as they wish but not offer support when they divorce them? The current law also discriminates against these women as they are not considered true wives in the eyes of the law.

Also, the men in this choice of belief system should not be able to get away claiming all their wives are single mothers so they can get welfare from the government. I thought they were the wives? So how is it that they can break the law and claim they are single mothers with children? Doesn't their belief tell them they need to uphold the law of the land? No, only when it benefits them.

Nor should the leaders in this life style be allowed to excommunicate young boys and girls when they become problems (young men needing a wife) or desire their own life partners (young women desiring a young husband.)

The law should be changed so it favors these innocent children, not discriminate against them for having the unfortunate demise of being born into this selfish lifestyle based on a sexual predators needs and greed.

These men will never change their belief system as it brings them much power over those with no voice or education. Change the law so it protects the innocent one's Charter of Rights not men whose hearts will never change under the guise of religion.